BROS: WHEN SHE TEMPTS YOU
Every human being faces temptation. Even Jesus Christ faced temptation gain and again in all kinds of things. From the scriptures, I understand that he must have been tempted to do all the bad stuffs you and I am tempted to do today. Today, I want to talk about temptation – especially from ladies.
There are all kinds of temptation that can come from ladies. But the one I want to talk about today is temptation to commit sexual sin. I have faced such temptations a number of times and I want to share with you how you can handle it.
First, you should convince yourself that she is not really the tempter; she is just a vessel for temptation. You know why? Satan is the true tempter who uses anybody that makes herself available to him.
When she tempts you, Look at Satan trying to cause network failure between you and God so that your communication with your source fails. Consider the great person you are going to become which Satan wants to thwart with his temptation.
If you can shift your focus away from her tactics and look at the big picture, you will see that it’s not for your good in the end.
You will see that it’s not about the orgasmic pleasure but loss of spiritual energy, disconnection from God and possible demonic contamination. It’s about breaking your home. It’s about losing the pride in being chaste. It’s about disappointing many who look up to you.
Let me give some suggestions on how to handle her temptation.
You will always get temptation from women; your spirituality or moral uprightness notwithstanding. But you must brace up not to fall for it. When she comes tempting; don’t look at the pleasure you may get. She is just bait. Look at the hook that will strangle you if you fall for her. Run for your dear life.
Destroy Every Room for Your Fall
If you look around and find that they are tempting you in an environment that encourages your fall, leave the room. If it’s in a dark or isolated place and she starts leaning on you and talking in one kind voice, tell her you need to go.
Please know that the ability to resist temptation will be available to you only if you have made up your mind not to fall for her temptation. I have said this in an earlier post that the starting point of fornication is your mind; not foreplay.
Sometimes, she can be stubborn and persist in her plea and pressure to get you to do it. In that case, run.
Once a lady walked into my room and started with nonsense talk. I wanted to take my siesta but when she came in I left the bed and sat on my study table. I noticed she has nothing to say and may be in her Heat Period I choose to leave the room for her. It was then that she tried to stop me that the spirit of niceness left me and I scolded her and she got the point. Now, she hardly enters my room; though she hasn’t stopped trying.
Oh, this guy is a strong man. No; not at all. I had made up my mind on what to do and what not to do.
When she wants to tempt you, she doesn’t come out to say it. She simply use some strategies. When she choose to push you with her boobs, don’t tell her anything; lest she tags you mean guy. Just move your body away. If she is so desperate to continue, nicely tell her that you are not interested.
If she choose to open her legs, choose to look away. She will feel a sense of failure and shame. Whichever tactic she deploys to get you seduced and aroused, do your best to resist her temptation. You know why? It’s not about her boobs or the pleasure you will get; it’s about ruining your life for momentary pleasure.
One more thing: many of the tactics she is trying may have worked for her with many men; but prove to her that you are a different man. She will respect you for it. I am telling you the truth.
What have I said? You will always get temptation from women; your spirituality or moral uprightness notwithstanding. But you must brace up not to fall for it. When she comes tempting; don’t look at the pleasure you may get. She is just bait. Look at the hook that will strangle you if you fall for her. Run for your dear life.