REPAIRING A DISTRACTING RELATIONSHIP
Last time on Relationship Pills, in the article When a Relationship Become a Distraction, I showed pointers that a relationship has become a distraction. Recall that the last point I made in the then article was that if you find that your relationship has become a distraction, you should either repair it or check out of it. I promised to suggest a mechanism of repair. To fulfil that promise is that trust of today’s article.
The starting point of repairing a distracting relationship is to find out who it is becoming a distraction. If you can’t fix this, you will, any other effort you make at repairing your relationship will be fruitless. So, go through the pointers again or even sit down and reflect on your own to find out how your relationship has become a distraction.
Now that you have found how it is a distraction, check out ways you could manage the distraction agent. As an example, if he is constantly bringing you emotional trauma, find out why. Could it be that you have given him so much space in your heart that anything he does affects you adversely? If that’s the case, you need to reduce it. Also, could it be that he doesn’t even know that what he does traumatize you emotionally. If in your own case, she saps you of the money required for your financial investment, check if you are the person being irresponsible with your spending or she is the one that doesn’t know your true financial state and therefore make demands that you can’t really meet with ease.
When you have identified the distraction agent and what fuels the agent, another step you take is to meet your partner for a discussing on how to remove distractions in your life. Meet with your partner to discuss your repair. Don’t just walk out of the relationship or devise your ways and start putting up an attitude that
Suggest cutting down on certain expenses you indulge in. If she is one of the blind girls who believe that money is everything, she will leave you. Don’t worry. Your future is more important that the feeling of being in love. Please note that this is not an excuse for being stingy and uncaring.
Like I pointed out in the earlier paragraph, if he causes you emotional trauma all the time, find out tell him; he may not even know. Many times, many don’t know the little things that make a woman emotionally disturbed; if fact, I get shocked when I realized that how things I consider simple is big to the ladies.
Bros, if she is sapping you financially, discuss with her. But be as diplomatic as possible. If you had lied to her about your financial state, tell her the truth. Let her know that you have more lasting investment to do with the resources at your disposal. Suggest cutting down on certain expenses you indulge in. If she is one of the blind girls who believe that money is everything, she will leave you. Don’t worry. Your future is more important that the feeling of being in love. Please note that this is not an excuse for being stingy and uncaring.
My sister, if she takes too much of your time that you hardly have time for yourself, your career and building your future, call him and discuss how to make adjustments with him.
I have used only two examples to illustrate the process of repairing a distracting relationship. Whatever your own case is, apply the same method to get achieve repair.
Once you agree on the adjustments to make, go on to execute it. Sometimes, he may break the rules you have set for yourselves in ensuring you don’t remain distractions to each other; politely remind her your rules and help her as much as possible.
Very importantly, you need to pray to God to help you in your quest for a distraction-free relationship. I believe that there is more to life than what we see. That is, life is controlled by supernatural forces. Pray to God for help and you will contract that strongest and most reliable supernatural force.